Wednesday, June 30, 2010

to love is to give is to earn

"why i can't give..."

Stingy people will never be rich. Due to their poor mentality state of mind that they are not sharing since it is not even enough for their ownself. Forever they are bound to the mindset of 'not enough' and it will held them down from going to extra length to find more resources.
Stingy people comes from different angle ; physically rich and even poor .

Generous people who loves to give will be rich. Literally through physical and mental. To give more they need more so they will always look for more resources to be able to sustain their loved ones.
Rich people has a lot of people to love. Poor people has few people that they love very much within their arms reach and not universal.

Poor people life are lonely and little and therefore poor people is not genuinely happy people.
So money CAN give you happiness. Contrary to the popular belief that money is the root of all Evil.
Money offers solution, network and teamwork and even cherish and love. Perhaps too much money is disastrous but, with the right principle and excellent value you can never go wrong.

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

best story i had this week...

I was ready to get angry, when my husband starts with story about a normal guy molested a retarded girl.

It was a great real story and it starts bleak, yet my husband continues on. It happened to his friend’s neighborhood and I personally know this friend myself. He was courageous, short-tempered and amorous…literally speaking. His wife is a full time house wife and close to their neighborhood members. On this particular day she and her other neighbors noticed the girl went into this evil guy apartment. They discussed and decided to investigate. When they check on him at his doorway and ask him, he disregard it and they could not locate the girl’s sandal. But!. They insisted. Together with other neighbors they all went into the apartment and found the girl inside the room with her outfit in a mess. They started to questioned him after several refusal he admitted to molested the girl.

I was already angry at this time but my husband continued to the BEST part. This friend started to ask this evil ‘shit’ why he do what he did. His reply is such a snap of ‘So What.” And ‘BAM’ one shot on the face with bleeding nose and shattered dignity.

That is good. I was relief…God is Good! ..creating such righteous human being. He was never perfect but what he did is a cry for people who believe in judgment.

Then, my husband continues his story from good…to better. Their other neighbor is a soldier and when the news spread out, another kick on the abdomen and the ‘shithead’ passed out…Boy!i Love Good Stories!!!

Well the aftermath is the shithead stays 5 Free complimentary nights at the police station with another promise from the police that he would get some kind of ‘lesson’ during his time at the lockup.

But to me, the significant part of the story is the cooperation among the neighborhood, the compassion for each other adversity through different races and religion in a simple and average-wage apartment tenants.

The trust, the care and the courage to stand up for Truth and Justice.

don’t you just love Happy Ending?...i do.

Thursday, June 3, 2010

Formula to Excellence...(sounds good to be true?....oh its good!) Episod 1

as simple as...

Tell yourself this every morning,or during break time, or before an important event or anytime needed.

1) How do you feel? = Wonderful!

2) Where are you? =  Here

3) What time is it? = Now!

Let me know if it works!

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

...and why do we agree to fall into anger regardless how distressing it was.

...maybe they have good memory of that person...and perhaps...just perhaps they don't know him per today this very day whereby days and years have changed and turns himself of yesterday to be simply a vivid yet distant memory of yesteryears...but i know him from a different angle when i saw a different part of him where darkness creeps and emotion running high when a mistake can never undone and leave a memory of undisclosed tragedy.

We all may related to one reason, Anger ; undeniably gives us a sense of relief and satisfaction. To no doubt, relief and satisfaction is a good thing, is a sort of accomplishment to a project. And yet, it connects us to Anger. It become a bridge between our freedom of relief to the negative energy of Anger. Needless to say how disastrous the result of Anger can do to a human towards his social level and to his own character.

So why do we need relief and satisfaction at the first place? Why do we lead and chart our path to go to that direction whereby we need to get angry to release and gives freedom to our emotion needs. 
Lets go back to the time when we put ourself in a position why we need to felt some kind of Relief. The very reason why we get relieved from something is that when we felt that we are being suppressed by a distant power that we know or at least felt have no power to change or to alter the situation. Say like when we were talking to someone who we dislike or more like 'hate', and why do we hate them? They did something to us, they hurt our feelings, they talk behind our back or worst they took something extremely valuable from us. When we encounter such individuals; and to maintain a professional based relationship we ought to speak in a polite manner with very little emotion involve. However, it is to no deny that a sense of restriction is overpowering us deep within. And this is when the need to a release comes into our senses. The same principle also goes to the stress of work whereby you are 'Paid' to achieve an expected result and this caused our creative mind or feeling bound and tied up deep inside in regards to our need to be in a vacation or to be with our loved ones. The fact that we are sitting and trying accomplish a result for someone else benefit, is to no denial is never the good timing of our life. Therefore we need to let go.

We then get angry and we are satisfied when all the negative flow of restriction in our heart and mind has been released by the power of Anger. But how can we resist a sort of satisfaction anytime possible?. It is a good thing it may even promotes a sense of positivity as it feels good, a kind of feeling of bad,evil sentiment slowly released through our veins and muscles(at least by theory), how can we resist such chances?
Somehow where do we go from there?,to someone who notice and Anger is nothing but a culprit that will jeopardize their reputation they will want to figure out why and how one could trapped their own self to a situation of restriction until Anger bursting seems to be the right solution.

A person will only feel free from any restriction if their hearts lies a technique of 'Forgiving'. A sense of forgiveness will surely release a person from any situation that requires them to suppressed their high emotion on hatred,stressed and even bitterness. Literally it may seems easier to relate however it is easier said than done.

Forgiveness comes from pure willingness to let the other party win and challenge our kindness,integrity and patient. In this era a lot of people would go to great lengths to put their point across. To give in is to dismiss a challenge. Yet, it is either we choose forgiveness before anger sets in an becoming apart of us.

Though I lay you the facts on how a person can fall in to Anger, I could not yet illustrate via observation,from reading absorption and from wits ends deep inside to the subject of Forgiveness.

well..Happy reflection folks may you'll be inspired and discovered the true meaning of Forgiveness.