Wednesday, November 24, 2010

cerebral activity...

when an idea or mindset is alien to you it will never work out.

this apply when we put such ideas :
'must be nice to people'
yet we never experience what it is like,in other words we were never nice to people (well admit it,we all have some kind of weakness in a way). We might be loud or blunt and yes that is the the contrary of being nice to people.

Putting such ideas into your mind will simply go blindly hitting the wall in front of you.
It simply don't work out...such ideas when its never been part of your routine or your characteristic will easily slip away from your mind or worst will conflicting with your own current feelings and makes you feel even awkward when meeting people, then you start stumble over a chair, spilling your drinks or ordering the wrong menu.

This may clash with the elements of 'Law of attraction'. As the subject itself encourage you to empower yourself on ideas that you prefer; that you want to attract. Such as you want better friends, then you have to stop thinking like you're previous friends and kept repeating such thoughts until it goes into your subconscious mind and bring result.
In shorter description of the law of attraction is only think what you want and never think of what you don't want.
But, that is more of a general substance, when we talk about specifically on character or behavior to be exact, it don't always work.

I guess one should be specific on implementing ideas into their mind for example when we need some change in our attitude and wish to be more fond of people, when we realize we are not such person but decided that this change is good for us, then we may start with something more precise such as :
'i should QUIT being hostile to people'
that can be a beginning :). But to enhance the power and strength of the idea itself, note that the word 'QUIT' is in bold an cerebral activity you may repeat that idea in your head while focusing on the QUIT, but never ever overlook the very content of it which is QUIT being hostile.
Perhaps its not guaranteed effective but it may become less alien to you, since you choose to relate such new ideas into your own unique individuality and mental constitution. I mean nobody knows ourself better than us...

Well, folks i think this idea worth a try...unless it's alien to you :)
Happy trying!

Tuesday, November 23, 2010

Ish! mahalnya harga Syurga…

Nak masuk syurga ni memang susah,nak kena solat 5 kali sehari, nak zikir, nak hormat orang tua,nak kena ikut cakap suami,nak solat Dhuha,Tahajjud…nak kena pakai tudung, nak kawal cakap,nak tahan marah…

Pokoknya memang susah…


Nak masuk Neraka..ahmboi...punyalah senang!

Malah, tak perlu usaha apa pun, semudah itu kita boleh lompat ke dalamnya! Tak payah nak buat apa ibadah, boleh marah,boleh berdendam, boleh membenci, boleh buat macam-macam maksiat! Tak perlu kawal perasaan, tak perlu ingat Allah sedikit pun…memang seronok!


Kalau la Neraka ni benda. Tau saja benda murah ni,tak ada kualiti,cepat rosak,bila rosak kena lagi beli baru,duit lagi...Paling teruk benda murah ni boleh memudaratkan, contohnya bila kita beli spare part kereta ciplak atau cikai..akibatnya accident!...maut.


Benda mahal pula kualiti dia tinggi, jangka masa ketahanan dia panjang ada tu sampai ‘life-time guarantee’ lagi.

Jadi…memang lah dugaan nak masuk Syurga,tu sangat lah besar dan sebab itu lah ibadah kita seharusnya tidak terkira banyaknya..tak payah kira pun, buat sebanyak yang mampu…ya lah kan...takut tak cukup.

Kita ni manusia, tak lari dari kesilapan...mungkin sejam dalam sehari pun tak bertahan daripada berbuat dosa. Maka dengan itu, kita cuba agak-agak timbangan dosa dan pahala tu condong sedikit ke arah pahala.

Sebab itulah sesetengah orang mengatakan ibadah ini umpama investment untuk ke syurga atau ‘investment  akhirat’.

Sama-samalah kita melakukan ibadah,menurut perintah dan laranganNya dan berjihad melawan nafsu.

(niat saya bukan untuk mengajar tetapi sekadar menghidupkan amar maruf nahi mungkar,mohon maaf sekiranya ada ketidaksenangan translate : apologies for any inconvenience :)...Hasil nukilan ini pun adalah kesan daripada pembacaan buku-buku,artikel-artikel dan lagu-lagu agama)

Monday, November 22, 2010

when im not busy on...

negative thinking pattern.

yeeeaaaa, we'll go back to that sooner or later, but i would like to write something about 'what'..a mix of much what I've been doing currently' the hobby,faith and mindset i upheld for the time being...

yesterday my husband gave me The Look for creeping under the bridge at a strange place while im exploring and experiencing on how to catch a blur effect on the water...
this morning i promised that 'i will not show any act of hostility towards my children(yeah that includes screaming and yelling darlings)
and i discovered the new album from Sami Yusuf.

and now it all sums up to one Agenda ; i need to find a job
1) more liberty in travelling on Saturdays and Sundays to experiment photography...i mean without a job what kind of excuse i manage to come up for my mom in law to babysit my kids.(jobless,sitting at home and a mum of two..."Err...Ma, i need to take some photos by the bay? back in 5 hours ^^..."...she'll hate me in silence...period)
2)being away from home actually has its benefit, your kids will appreciate you more....In a way!...i mean this statement does not include if you're a type of person who is nurturing, soft-spoken and your hobby is..children and your diet consist of home-made cuisine with the possibility of redundancy. But, if you have certain visions of travelling to exotic places while your husband is the semi-paid blue collared government probably thinking searching for other resources is essential.
3)im planing to visit down town to the House of Islam store to purchased (wit me own money)the original Sami Yusuf and Maher Zain CD..instead of being cheeky and downloaded it for free.

to enhance the meaning of this blog post let me share with you some tips on I Luv Islam article, when you're sad,anxious, (in my case)deranged the tips are :
1) reciting Allah
3)Occupied yourself with something(that explains the Agenda above)
4)Express yourself via writing blogs(that triggers me to write today :D )
5)Smile...(the only missing today...will work on it soon!)

and so my friends let us pursue in making ourself live this life completely and happily :)
All the Best folks!